Friday, June 22, 2012

Prayer

Last Wednesday all my best parenting tactics were completely ineffective.  I raised my voice so often that Stella kept tentatively asking, "Momma mad?"  Bedtime (finally) rolled around and as we went to say our family prayer, without prompting Anton crossed his pudgy arms high on his chest (looking extremely proud, I might add).  A tender mercy--something must be going right and I can always try again tomorrow.
Then this morning, for the first time, Stella said her own prayer.  We had already blessed the food and we looked over to see her with arms re-folded, saying,"Please bless the food...thank you for peanut butter...thank you for jam...thank you for milk...in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen."

And while I'm on the topic, can I petition for your prayers?  A few weeks ago Jason's mom got the dreaded news that her cancer is back and trying to take over her body.  Libby put it best, those Hansen women always do, when she said, "I cannot describe the sorrow that hovers over us."  The cancer is incurable but hope is not lost, we are praying the radiation treatments will work and that Cindy's body will remain strong so that she do the things she loves and be surrounded by the people who love her (and oh, there are many).

Cindy finds the good in people and makes everyone feel important and loved.  I am constantly amazed by all she accomplishes (as if her days are longer than 24 hours) and how she genuinely cares for, nurtures and embraces those she knows.  Everything she does, she does exceptionally well--gardening, cooking, hostessing, gift giving (this is a talent), organizing, and grandmothering.  She waited a long time to become "GG" and has embraced the role.  Stella, Anton, and Chloe are lucky little souls.  And so, please add your prayers to ours that the Lord will see fit to give us time.  Lots of it!

9 comments:

noelle regina said...

i'm also thankful for peanut butter and for jam.

and praying for Gigi. we need her.

Allison and Noah Riley said...

The whole Gardner family is in our prayers. Thinking of you!

angelique said...

did you make her eat her PB and jam without bread?

I hope you and the kiddos are getting some good Gardner time in

Brad and Danielle said...

We are praying for your family too. And if anyone ever needs a place to stay, we have some extra beds and extra rooms not too far away. Anytime. For as long as they (you) need. Much love thru this sad news!

MeganHowell said...

Aunt Cindy is everything a woman should be. I want to be just like her. Your whole family is in our prayers everyday. We love you all, soo much!

auntie libby said...

I believe in the power of prayer. Prayers of thanks and blessing on food and prayers of healing. I'm praying for a miracle.

auntie libby said...

I believe in the power of prayer. Prayers of thanks and blessing on food and prayers of healing. I'm praying for a miracle.

Anonymous said...

Adding our prayers to yours. So sad to hear this news. (Teri)

Ashley said...

Your words are beautiful Erica. We are so sorry for this heartache. Cindy really is amazing. I am so glad she'll have more time than you initially thought. We will keep praying for more. Thank you for taking precious time to see us. We love you guys. Our prayers are with you.